So thank you guys for really taking the time to fully explain the quadrant with me like this, because it clears up SO MUCH and it’s nice to see how dedicated you guys all are. Thank you for using the term asexual and soulmates here. Because of that, I got it instantly.

So HEARTS = Lovers

DIAMONDS = family OR Soulmates (the balance thing)

SPADES = Hate Fucking/that one guy that sleeps with a picture of his enemy every night

CLUBS = polyamorous dating where they try not to kill each other.